![]() ![]() ”īut maybe you really want to believe so you allow yourself to go down that pathway. And each time it happens, it causes your mind to melt a little bit, like “What? Really? That doesn’t make any sense. Pathological lies, wow, they are frequent. Pathological lies are different than those white lies, which as I said, are relatively harmless. Then some thoughts on what you can do when you have a pathological liar in your life. And then when I’m done with that, I’m going to talk about each of them so that you really understand. I’m going to give you 10 ways that they do it. Hijackals are people who hijack relationships for their own purposes, and then relentlessly scavenge them, at home usually, for power status and control. But feel free to use my term, because they need a name. So don’t pretend you can diagnose them either, no matter how much you’ve read on the internet. That’s what those folks that I call hijackals trade in… pathological lies.Īnd my definition of hijackals for, those who don’t know, I created this term because most people who have any type of traits of personality disorders will never be diagnosed. It is not going to erode and undermine your trust and your belief and your willingness to be in full relationship with that person.īut pathological lies. ![]() With these white lies, sure, something is happening, but it’s not going to affect the depth and the being of the relationship. Maybe they’re coming from embarrassment and they don’t want to don’t want to tell the truth. Maybe they’re done to spare your feelings. And basically, they’re relatively harmless things. Now we all know about white lies, you know, “do I look fat in these pants?” Well, that’s not a question you want to ask if you want an honest answer, right? So there are things that we call it white lies or little fibs or, you know, little things. I’m giving you some more in insights into this whole being-lied-to-business, which is very unsettling and absolutely wrong on every level. And I promised that I would be far more specific, especially about people that I call hijackals. I started with an episode last time about being able to understand when someone’s lying to you and what to do. So, what – or who – is a pathological liar? ![]() Well, you may very well maybe with a pathological liar and you need to know that because you don’t want to be trapped in a place with a pathological liar and not recognize what’s happening. #pathologicalliar #signsofapathologicalliar #beingliedto #narcissistslie #howtostopthelying #Iknowheslying #iknowsheslying #confrontinglies #respondtoaliarĪre you with someone who lies to you frequently?Īnd then when you ask them if they’re lying, or you tell them that they’re lying, they tell you that they’re not and everything is your fault….And why are you so suspicious? And why is this such a difficulty for you? And why are you always finding fault? How best to respond and how not to respond to a pathological liar.What to focus on when you are being lied to.What not to do when being lied to by a #Hijackal or #pathologicalliar.Most common lies of #Hijackals and other pathological liars.10 reasons pathological liars will not tell the truth.Difference between white lies and pathological lies.I understand that they are so hooked on hope that the person they fell in love with would never lie to them that they believe the lies. “I know I’m being lied to, but I want it to be true.” I hear that so often from clients. Most folks don’t want to believe their are being lied to.īest to get over that and recognize what’s happening, why, and how to respond to liars.
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